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The Power of Humility
Choosing Peace Over Conflict in Relationships
Humility involves relationships. These include our relationships with our self, others, and if we choose, the God of our understanding. We can begin to define humility as having openness to learning more about these three relationships. And it is more. In The Power of Humility (HCI Books - $14.95), the authors explore humility – and how we can use it to our benefit -- from the perspective of all three of these relationships.
Humility is not about groveling or being a doormat. Instead, it is a powerful attitude and state of mind that, when we are in the pain of conflict, opens us to more choices and peaceful resolutions. Humility assists our ordinary ego-centered unawareness into a more expansive, alive, and conscious awareness.
We have choices to handle the conflict and pain that we feel when we find ourselves in a triangle. For example, the power of humility can be used in the workplace where two or more people have polarized against each other to the detriment of the company's functioning. It can also be used to bring about peace in conflicted families and other painful relationships
Humility (if found in each individual) can bring the conflicted polarity out of an either/or stance to a both/and reality that will be healing for everyone, including a family, company, organization, or group.
Even more, mature humility has the power to co-create a life of peace and Unity where all the boundaries disappear between our Self and our Creator finally fulfilling our true destiny.
The power of humility is the paradox that as we cultivate and accept our "human-ness" – our "humility" – we invite experiences of the Divine – peace, love, joy, gratitude – into our life and our relationships.
According to the authors of this breakthrough book, t he power of humility is that it is the key to better relationships –with self, others and God -- and inner peace. |  |
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An invaluable reference book from the premiere authority on, and international best-selling author of, addiction and mental health issues.
Dr. Whitfield provides clinicians, patients and their families with a crucial guide to mental illness, including information on new treatment options. This unique approach also answers questions on the role unresolved trauma plays in mental illness.
According to the National Institute of Mental Health, one in five American adults suffers from some kind of "mental disorder." The Truth about Mental Illness uncovers the myths and realities of disorders such as post-traumatic stress, ADD, anxiety, eating disorders, drug addiction,
schizophrenia and personality disorders. Whitfield offers cutting-edge research into their causes; why the real causes are often overlooked; how clinicians and patients can avoid misdiagnosis and how to prevent bothersome and sometimes dangerous drug effects. He also offers important non-drug treatment options, which can be used alone or with drug treatment.
Key Features- One in five adults suffer some type of "mental disorder."
- Provides alternative solutions to the drugs-only approach. Drugs are costly, often have toxic side effects and can be fatal.
- People are seeking alternative approaches.
- Dr. Whitfield has the ability to reach professionals:
- He has a solid and loyal following and speaks at conferences each year.
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Are you in or considering Recovery? To make your recovery work in your life, consider this book today. If you or someone you love is battling an addiction, struggling with a mental illness, or living a harmful lifestyle, this book can help. Stop being "Sick and Tired of Being Sick and Tired." Consider Ordering Now and Start Healing NOW.
Best-selling author Charles Whitfield, M.D., offers clarity. skills and structure to help you take charge of your recovery by creating a personalized and workable program. Instead of merely treating the symptoms of your problem, Dr. Whitfield shows you how to uncover its physical, mental and spiritual roots, and use your own personal power as your most valuable healing tool. You'll learn how to overcome any issues that are inhibiting your healing, including resolving past traumas and connecting to a spiritual source.
Small enough to fit into a pocketbook or briefcase, this book is a lifeline that no one in recovery should be without. | .
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The "Child Within" refers to that part of each of us which is ultimately alive, energetic, creative and fulfilled; it is our real self -- who we truly are.
Dr. Whitfield describes the journey of discovery and healing our fears, confusion and unhappiness. This book begins where many others describing adult children of alcoholics have left off. It also describes and develops the concept of adult children of troubled or dysfunctional families in general, rather than focusing only on the alcoholic family.
Members of Twelve-step Self-help groups and Adult Children Self-help groups will find this book especially useful in their own recovery work, both within and outside of their meetings. | .
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A Gift to Myself
A Personal Workbook and Guide to the National Bestselling book,
"Healing the Child Within"
In this book Dr. Whitfield continues and expands the ways to heal our Child Within which he began to describe in his best-selling Healing the Child Within. He presents specific guidelines and exercises for getting free of the chains of co-dependence and having grown up in a dysfunctional family. Based on his rich clinical experience, he adds seventeen new chapters and topics, including:- Who am I?
- Who is Safe to Talk to?
- What Happened?
- Stress in My Life
- Secrets
- A Full Recovery Program
- Experiencing
- Boundaries and Limits in Recovery
- Visiting My Family of Origin
- Creating New Rules and Messages
- Lightening Up and Having Fun
- Loving My Child Within
- Knowing When I Have Healed My Child Within
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Of all the books on the often misunderstood concept of co-dependence, this is probably the clearest, most complete and informative. Charles Whitfield is a frontline clinician who has been assisting co-dependents in their healing for over twenty years. He has researched the literature on co-dependence, which he summarizes in this widely read book.
He sees co-dependence as a way to more accurately describe the painful and confusing part of the human condition. In careful detail he describes just what co-dependence is and what it is not, how it comes about, and how to heal its painful aftereffects.
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 | Misinformation Concerning Child Sexual Abuse & Adult Survivors
Successfully navigate the minefield of misinformation that can prevent justice from being done in child sexual abuse cases!
From the Foreword, by Robert Geffner, PhD, editor of the Journal of Child Sexual Abuse: "Too often, the public and some professionals have been misled by media publicity and articles . . . that appear scientific, but in reality, these are biased opinions or over-generalized research. Forensic cases are being decided in many courts based upon the recommendations of so-called 'expert witnesses'who do not actually know the clinical research or understand the dynamics of such abusive relationships."
This much-needed book points out and corrects misinformation that everyone who works with victims, offenders, or families in which sexual abuse has occurred needs to understand clearly. Especially vital in today's political climate, Misinformation Concerning Child Sexual Abuse and Adult Survivors gives you state-of-the-science information on such myths as "false memory syndrome," "recovered memory therapy," and the "lack of harm" to some sexually abused boys.
This book examines: - forensic issues, including the "false memory" defense and how the long-term impact of childhood sexual abuse is often misrepresented in court
- three separate expert examinations of Rind, Tromovitch, and Bauserman's well-known--and often misrepresented--review of long-term child sexual abuse outcomes
- treatment recommendations and guidelines for addressing the memory controversy in clinical practice
- the fascinating case history/cautionary tale of the child molester Robert Halsey, who was convicted and sentenced to two life sentences in 1993, and how public and academic resources were misused to claim he was wrongly convicted
A monograph published simultaneously as the Journal of Child Sexual Abuse, Vol. 9, Nos. 3/4.Securely Order Your copy of
"Misinformation Concerning Child Sexual Abuse and Adult Survivors"
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More than personal boundaries, this book is really about relationships--healthy and unhealthy ones. Here best-selling author and psychotherapist Charles Whitfield blends theories and dynamics from several disciplines into practical knowledge and actions that you can use in your relationships right now.
This comprehensive book opens with clear definitions and descriptions of boundaries, a self-assessment survey and a history of our accumulated knowledge. Going deeper, it describes the 10 essential areas of human interaction wherein you can improve your relationships. These include age regression, giving and receiving (projection and projective identification), triangles, core recovery issues, basic dynamics, unfinished business and spirituality. It shows in countless practical ways how knowledge of each of these is most useful in your recovery and everyday life.
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Depression hurts. Sometimes it overwhelms. But what do we really know about it? Is the current opinion about its nature and treatment true? Whether you or someone you know suffers from depression, you have choices that will enhance recovery. Rather than relying on the drugs-alone approach, which is expensive, often toxic, and doesn't work well, there may be other more effective and less bothersome recovery aids.
In this bold new book, renowned physician, psychotherapist and best-selling author Charles Whitfield offers new hope.
Through revealing description, case studies, cutting-edge research and illustrative charts, Dr. Whitfield explores the risks, side effects and high costs of treating disorders with drugs alone, and offers several other effective healing aids.
This book offers a lifeline for those who have been held hostage by depression and provides clinicians with effective new treatment solutions.. |  |
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Remembering what happened in any traumatic experience is basic and crucial to healing. For over 100 years the memory of abuse survivors has been questioned and challenged by all sorts of people, ranging from perpetrators to family members. More recently, this memory has been challenged by a combination of accused family members, their lawyers and a few academics who claim the existence of a "false memory syndrome."
In this groundbreaking book Charles Whitfield, M.D., voted by his peers as being one of the best doctors in America, brings his clinical experience and knowledge about traumatic memory to examine, explore and clarify this crucial issue that threatens to invalidate the experience of survivors of trauma and handcuff the professionals who assist them as they heal. This thorough, insightful work provides crucial information for anyone affected by a traumatic experience.. | .
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